BESTIES (ITS SOOO HARD TO SAY GOODBYE)

Okay ladies because I'm such-a-f-ing-lady I have the habit of speaking my mind. Never rude. But will quickly address a situation if its bothering me. And like I stated earlier this is a blog (MY BLOG) where you can let it all out....

Well I feel the need to address friendships. How just like romantic relationships they come and go. Like its just natural for people to sometime grow apart (I guess)But its crazy because when the going is good, its GOOD, and when its bad, its BAD! But what is it that make us grow apart....and why do the signs show up when its too late to fix....

Personally I do not let too many in my circle....but if I do IN MY OPINION I'm so loyal...almost motherly and protective of my friend's feeling (such a f-ing Cancer)! Not to long ago a "best friendship" that I had for years turn sour...Like honestly back then I could never picture a day we wouldn't talk on the phone everday for hours..or get up....or just kick it like old times....

We were the black Paris and Nicole...Like had soooo much in common, we were girly (still is), classy and was each other two percent. (two percent- a lil inside joke when 98% of the people in our area said white, we were the two percent that felt red lol) We just had a vibe... We had our own inside language, and inside jokes for days... like I was the Paris to her Nicole and vice versa(mad tight)

But over the years or maybe I should say months we just grew apart. I say months because it was soooooo random. Something minor growing into something major.... But even though we keep in touch with technology its clearly not the same...but there is no bad blood (look at me and my hood self lol @bad blood) I actually still love my old bestie <----- aww still kinda weird.... but I know that this is a sign that we have grown....We still have tons of memories to last and of course can always unite over drinks....wow got kinda deep right quick a true sign that I'm SUCH-A-F-ING-LADY

EYE CANDY!!!!!

UM..UM...UMMM!!!! MR JAMARCUS RUSSELL!!! HE IS SOOOOOOOOO SEXXI!! NUMBER 2 ON THE OAKLAND RADIERS.....NOT INTO FOOTBALL BUT HE CAN EASILY GET ME TO TURN TO ESPN.... HE'S DEF #2 ON MY LIST (MY NUMBER ONE FOOTBALL PLAYER IS A SPECIAL HARTFORD NATIVE *WINK*)LADIES ENJOY THIS CREATION LAWD HAVE MERCY LOL

SONG LYRIC OF THE DAY

"Whoever said it's impossible to miss when you never had
Never almost had you"- Tamia. Album:Between Friends Song: Almost


Okay Ladies anyone who knows me know that I'm like real creative!!! Especially in song writing. So I decided to make it my business on a daily basis (might be days I slipp)to find a song, and a lyric in the song that just hits home....we all know that songs are the soundtracks of our lives. For the first entry I choose Miss Tamia's song Almost.... The song is soooooo beautiful as well as old but hey its in my current playlist and you should add it to yours... Seriously ladies how many times have you (we) thought we had a guy and when looking back on the situation you realize you never really had him after all. I mean if you did he probably wouldn't have done half the things he did. Yet you still miss him!!!

Well theres a cliche that says YOU CAN'T MISS WHAT YOU NEVER HAD. This is where this song takes place.. What's interesting about this song is that its actually going agaisnt that very cliche. Saying that its very possible to miss what you never had (that is if the person is "special" enough") And for that reason I choose the part of the song where she sings "whoever said its impossible to miss when you never had, never almost had you" That is the truth. Sometimes you can be soooooo close to getting your way that you can taste it. And even though you never quite got it you stil miss it. LADIES PLEASE DOWNLOAD THIS AMAZING SONG.....TELL ME WHAT YOU THINK....It's sooooo one of those songs that just makes a woman feel like its okay to dwell on the past...

HOT ITEM OF THE WEEK!!!!

Just because we are NOT celebrities doesn't mean things don't get busy or hetic like one...Which is why my hot item of the week is the one and only LACE WIG!!! Many celebrities are wearing them from Beyonce, Ashanti, Mary J Blige or anybody else who seems to change their styles often.

Okay so I've been doing my homework on them and they are amazing. You can actually part and style your hair anyway you want... Yess ladies high ponytails, parts down the middle the styles are endless. You can wear up do's down do's any way you wanna wear your hair. They are a little pricey but if your patient enough you can actually find them pretty cheap... I believe with a product like this you get what you pay for... (invisiwig.com has me sold, the minute I get them income tax lol)

Not only are they stylish but convient for those bad hair days or if you simply don't have the time.... And believe me paying $300 dollars for this baby is soooo worth it... Whenever you don't have time to do your hair just throw on your lace wig... You can actually do it yourself... So yes ladies you should add a lace wig to the closet!!!

You Don't Know My Name

Okays So I have a juicy story to tell. Of course I'm going to edit names because I guess its the right thing to do......We all heard the song by Miss Alicia Keys "You Don't Know My Name" and even though this story is not quite as innocent I felt it was soooooo appropriate!!

Ladies I'm not knocking one night stands or monthly stands (lol if that even exist)but at least take the time in between humps and get dude name!!! Here's the story...

We'll call him Jacob and we'll call her Meagan... Okay... So Here it goes... I met this guy name *Jacob while being cute and fab and simply walking down the street on my way to visit an Aunt... Anyway Jacob just had the nerve to approach me. And I guess due to being bored I gave him my number. Because I honestly wasnt interested... To make a long story short just couldn't help but to put him in the friend category yet he still would try... well because I'm so not a hater I decided to hook him up with my "home girl" Meagan. Maybe for selfish reasons because I wanted to get him out my hair and plus the accent that made me cringe she liked. So around April I hooked them up (mean while I still was his first choice). We'll they must of hit it off or he just wanted to HIT because in July she was PREGNANT!!!! Now here's the crazy part she named the baby after the dad..... He goes to jail and she's trying to get his info through the inmate locater site (ghetto) any who she could not find him... Come to find out his real name was *Leroy!!!!! Like OMG she personally named her baby Jacob, thinking she was naming the baby after the father when in reality his name was no where near that...
So ladies if your gonna do your thing, please get the dude's name..... I would hate for you to be a victim!!!

WELCOME

OKAY WELCOME TO MY BLOG!!!! I'M SO EXCITED!!! (OKAY I'M BEING PRETTY GAY RIGHT NOW) ANYWAYS BECAUSE THIS IS THE FIRST ENTRY I'M GOING TO MAKE IT MY BUSINESS TO WRITE ONLY IN CAPS (MORE GAY). ANY WHO JUST TO MAKE SURE THAT I INTRODUCE MYSELF YOU CAN CALL ME BLACK BARBIE. SHALLOW BUT HEY THATS A CHARACTERISTIC I'VE BEEN TOLD PLAYS A IMPORTANT ROLE IN MY PERSONALITY!!! WELL IF YOU DON'T KNOW ME FROM ADAM WHICH ALOT OF YOU MAY NOT....I'M A PRETTY INTERESTING INDIVIDUAL.....INSTEAD OF GIVING MY LIFE STORY AND VIEWS ON THINGS IN ONE SITTING, YOU'LL SO LEARN THAT BY SIMPLY STAYING TUNED...YOU'LL SEE THAT WE PROBABLY HAVE MORE IN COMMON THEN YOU IMAGINED.....

SUCH-A-F-ING-LADY!!! INTERESTING TITLE *GIGGLES* I KNOW. BUT I THOUGHT GOOD AND HARD ABOUT WHAT I WANTED MY BLOG TO REPRESENT AND THIS COULDN'T HAVE BEEN A BETTER NAME. IN THE OLD DAYS WOMEN WERE PORTRAYED AS BEING WEAK, SWEET, CONSERVATIVE, SOFT SPOKEN, AND TIMID.....NOT!! WE ARE STRONG INDIVIDUALS WITH ENOUGH BACK BONE (WELL AT LEAST I DO) AND WE ARE NOT TAKIN NO NIG NIGS SHHHHHHHH. WELL NOT ALL OF IT AT LEAST..... LADIES THIS IS A BLOG TO REPRESENT US. THE BEHIND THE SCENES OF BEING A REAL WOMAN IN TODAY'S SOCIETY....AND IF YOU FEEL LIKE YOU GOTTA GET YOUR KIMORA LEE ON (MEANING BEING IN CHARGE OF YOUR SHHHH) DON'T FEEL BAD JUST LOOK IN THE MIRROR WINK AND SAY LOUD AND PROUD "I'M SUCH A F-ING LADY"