However I'm still aware of Carrie's obsession with Mr.Biggs. And I think the reason why its has become an obsession to US is because the situation is soooo relatable. Actually I think almost every female has either met or is dealing with a guy who they seem to not be able to win completely over, yet they still refuse to "completely" leave him alone.
My Mr.Biggs came in the format of a street dude who we'll call "Juvenile". And trust me while he played the role as Mr.Biggs I was definitely his Carrie. Its crazy because no matter how many signs came my way (bad signs) I would still continue to try to rescue a "love" that didn't want to be saved. Hoping one day he would take me serious enough to be his partner in crime.
Its weird because I loved him so much, yet I hated him at the same time. Loved him because I so thought he was my type and thought we could be something wonderful but hated him for the lack of....ummm the lack of communication on his part! Luckily I got it together and met a REAL man (#35) I mean let's face it, most of the Carrie and Mr.Biggs scenerios do not end happily ever after.
I mean was I suppose to just wait. I'm sorry but I cannot and will not wait to the day that a man makes up his mind and hope that its in my favor... Nope not me.
Any real woman will eventually move on. No matter how hard it may be. Because in my opinion its in the guy's DNA to be the hunter. Not ours. Chasing a man is just not cute. I learned that "Juvenile" was just that, juvenile.
So what that said, characters like Mr.Biggs are fun to watch on tv. But in the real world can be dangerous creatures. All the calling, the dates, the night caps, the cuddling just to still remain in square one....uuuuuuuh no I don't think so!!!
Just some thoughts
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