Got Love?

If I was to ask you would putting your hand in fire burn, you would be able to tell me yes without any doubt. Right? There would be no doubt in your mind that if you were to stick your hand in that fire that it would burn you. So how come when it comes to the certainty of being in love we are not so sure?

I'm gonna keep it real. I've been doing this relationship thing for two years solid. Not no on and off and then on again, but two years STRAIGHT! I would be liar of the year if I didn't tell you that I didn't have my doubts.

For me it was the whole: how do you know if this is real, how do I know I can stay committed, how do I know if this is NOT a serious case of lust....I mean think about it. What substitutes fake love from the real? Or the difference between love and lust? What is love anyway? Is it the feeling of feeling like you can't live without a certain individual? Or is it just being overwhelmed because you finally find someone who isn't boring? Is love just a phase that eventually dies?

I no longer have my doubts and really feel with all my heart that me and #35 is meant to be (time will tell it always does). I love the feeling of knowing that somebody is really down for me and gives an "F" about my well being. I don't wanna get to detailed but I'm happy :-)

However a lot of women are guilty of not reading between the lines and in result find out the hard way that those weekend dates was nothing more TO HIM but an opportunity to eventually get into your pants (oooh harsh).

Now that I think about it the reason why a lot of people doubt their love (mainly women) is usually from lack of confidence or poor judgement of character.

Whatever it is, its an amazing feeling and hopefully the love you experience is authentic....in the mean time I'm such a f-ing ladyXoXo
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