Somethings Are Worth Fighting For

I've been gone for a minute and a lot has changed...I'm gonna leave it at that...

We all know that some things are worth fighting for...I like to believe that I'm one of them. I feel like if you can fight for your job, your car, your home, or anything else that's important to you then how in the hell can you have too much pride to fight for me?!

Its real sad ladies.... But sometimes it takes the END of a relationship to know how much you were really valued during it. And most of the time you can tell simply by the way he handles the breakup.

Some of you may or may not agree. But I personally have a hard time believing that a man who told me he loved me everyday for over two years could walk away without a FIGHT!

Men are naturally competitive. I've witnessed it. Trust me. Infact if my initials were NFL or NBA I wouldn't even be writing this. Have you ever witness the hunger of an athlete? He will put blood, sweat and tears into a game to get closer to the championship. And when the season is over and he's watching the other team win that very trophy instead of giving up completely on the game, he's out there preparing himself for next season. Giving up is just not an option. But for some reason when it comes to repairing a relationships that same hunger just doesn't exist.

Meanwhile all we want is to know that you still care. Like call just us to make sure we're breathing. Show me that them two years wasn't just you killing time. Its impossible to be in love with someone on Monday and then be completely out of love on Tuesday. Its just not that simple. How could a man who claimed to love a woman so deeply go days, weeks, even months in some cases without any communication. I want to know that your heart is aching. That you feel empty inside...hell I just want to know that you care!!!!!

Yeah the woman can pick up the phone too, but just like tossing a football is a man thing so is making the first move.....time is ticking and what hurts is knowing that after the breakup she wasn't even worth a phone call.....until next time xoxo

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Wow....is all I can say

Walking in the mall minding my business when a friend of mind points out this insulting shirt that says "Once you go Rican your sore for the weekend" like are you serious. Now that's what I call desperate for attention.
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Sometimes Mr. Nice Guy Gets The Girl

Okay soooo sitting in my living room and I'm so excited that Nick @ Nite decided to bring back the classic sitcom "Family Matters". That dag on Steve Urkel was soooo effin clumsy and annoying, but fun to watch.



We all know that Urkel was known for being the geek that was madly in love with a woman who happened to be out of his league (Poor poorLaura)! Physically Urkel did not do it for her. The high waters, squeaky voice, his love for cheese (yuck) and them goofy glasses!!! Can you blame her?



However despite of all his physical flaws Urkel was a nice guy who didn't mean no harm and sincerly loved Laura. He would do anything in his power to show how much he liked her. Even though it usually caused more harm than good lol. But no matter how much he tried Laura just didn't see him in that kind of way. And what I respect about the Steve Urkel category is that he never gave up hope.



Basically my point is sometimes the nice guy really do gets the girl. I know its in our DNA to usually go after the not so nice but yet so cool types but you'll be suprise what the outcome can be. I'm sure Laura and Steve both NEVER thought in a million years that all his patience would finally pay off. But he did. And he won her over.



I mean ladies think about it. Have you ever been around a guy that you swore up and down made your skin crawl??? A guy that really didn't have a chance in hell? Then one day out of no where, you started feeling these weird feelings. This sort of attraction that you never thought was possible.



I always said that a regular guy would love me to death. And even though I don't go for the Mr. Nice guy types those are usually the ones that when they fall in love they fall in love hard.They will treat you like the lady you are. So becareful who you put in the friend category they just might when you over!! And then you'll find your self saying "Did I do that" lol



Just a thought .....until next time I'm such-a-f-ing lady!!!

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Getting My "Beyonce" on!

Nooooo ladies I don't mean doing the "uh oh" dance in some night club. I'm talking about getting this career on a ball. I mean I'm twenty(blank) years old and I still don't feel like I'm close to reaching a career goal.
I mean don't get me wrong I'm no loser. I've work for a nice percentage of my life. Its just that I'm tired of finding jobs that are just for the moment, I'm ready for that career, like a REAL job. A job I can retire from.
I have one career path in mind. And I'm seriously thinking about persuing it. I mean eventually I gotta leave these little average Joe jobs alone.
But until then I sooooo have a job interview tommorow. Wish me luck ladies.
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I MISS YOU

.......Yeah pretty much Nothing more needs to be said!
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Got Love?

If I was to ask you would putting your hand in fire burn, you would be able to tell me yes without any doubt. Right? There would be no doubt in your mind that if you were to stick your hand in that fire that it would burn you. So how come when it comes to the certainty of being in love we are not so sure?

I'm gonna keep it real. I've been doing this relationship thing for two years solid. Not no on and off and then on again, but two years STRAIGHT! I would be liar of the year if I didn't tell you that I didn't have my doubts.

For me it was the whole: how do you know if this is real, how do I know I can stay committed, how do I know if this is NOT a serious case of lust....I mean think about it. What substitutes fake love from the real? Or the difference between love and lust? What is love anyway? Is it the feeling of feeling like you can't live without a certain individual? Or is it just being overwhelmed because you finally find someone who isn't boring? Is love just a phase that eventually dies?

I no longer have my doubts and really feel with all my heart that me and #35 is meant to be (time will tell it always does). I love the feeling of knowing that somebody is really down for me and gives an "F" about my well being. I don't wanna get to detailed but I'm happy :-)

However a lot of women are guilty of not reading between the lines and in result find out the hard way that those weekend dates was nothing more TO HIM but an opportunity to eventually get into your pants (oooh harsh).

Now that I think about it the reason why a lot of people doubt their love (mainly women) is usually from lack of confidence or poor judgement of character.

Whatever it is, its an amazing feeling and hopefully the love you experience is authentic....in the mean time I'm such a f-ing ladyXoXo
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Before #35 There Was Mr.Biggs... (the jerk)

Okay ladies for some reason I'm one of the few people who haven't been a loyal viewer to the hit sitcom 'Sex and The City'.

However I'm still aware of Carrie's obsession with Mr.Biggs. And I think the reason why its has become an obsession to US is because the situation is soooo relatable. Actually I think almost every female has either met or is dealing with a guy who they seem to not be able to win completely over, yet they still refuse to "completely" leave him alone.

My Mr.Biggs came in the format of a street dude who we'll call "Juvenile". And trust me while he played the role as Mr.Biggs I was definitely his Carrie. Its crazy because no matter how many signs came my way (bad signs) I would still continue to try to rescue a "love" that didn't want to be saved. Hoping one day he would take me serious enough to be his partner in crime.

Its weird because I loved him so much, yet I hated him at the same time. Loved him because I so thought he was my type and thought we could be something wonderful but hated him for the lack of....ummm the lack of communication on his part! Luckily I got it together and met a REAL man (#35) I mean let's face it, most of the Carrie and Mr.Biggs scenerios do not end happily ever after.

I mean was I suppose to just wait. I'm sorry but I cannot and will not wait to the day that a man makes up his mind and hope that its in my favor... Nope not me.
Any real woman will eventually move on. No matter how hard it may be. Because in my opinion its in the guy's DNA to be the hunter. Not ours. Chasing a man is just not cute. I learned that "Juvenile" was just that, juvenile.

So what that said, characters like Mr.Biggs are fun to watch on tv. But in the real world can be dangerous creatures. All the calling, the dates, the night caps, the cuddling just to still remain in square one....uuuuuuuh no I don't think so!!!

Just some thoughts
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I'm Off Limits (but shorty we aint real Cousins)

Okay so I'm attractive!! And its a given that guys are going to try to hit on me. A lot of the times its overwhelming. Like can a woman get to point A and B without being harrassed??? So by all means it doesn't come by suprise that men are always jocking my fresh (lol).
However I do find it shocking when men who witnessed me go through my different stages such as: being a tom boy, and a thinks she knows it all teenie bopper tries to talk to me. I mean fellas some ladiwes should just be off limits. Well lately that's been happening a lot.
A lot of my cousin's friends or men from around the way who got me by at LEAST nine years have been on it hard. Now even if #35 didn't exist they still wouldn't have a chance simply because I know what they are about! But out of all these individuals who've tried this these two has bothered me the most.
Okay we'll call guy friend number one Gary. Well me and Gary go way back. Like I literally have images in my head of us tossing a football together in the street (yuck). Like he was always cool and like family. I even remembered trying to hook him up with a friend of mind when I was in highschool. They even chilled in a hotel (and trust I told her to spare me the details because he was like a cousin) but I was shocked when she told me that while in the hotel he was quizzing her on If I was a sexually active or not. That should of been a sign right there. But I shrugged it off and was like why on earth would I be the topic of conversation while he's in a hotel room with my beautiful friend. Well anyway with age comes curves and as time went on we lost contact. I think he went away due to some legal trouble (aka the ninja went to jail). Then he seen the womanly side of Black Barbie and lost his damn mind. He came right out with it telling me he don't look at me in a cousin-ish way. It hurted me because I'm like ummm no we can't talk like that. But at the same time I didn't wanna lose the friendship that I sooo valued. Well just like I predicted its not the same. I actually cringed when I see him because I don't know how to approach him. Its crazy because I remember he would tell other guys to fall back for trying to get with me (like a real big boy cousin would). And talking to him was soooo natural feeling. I really did live Gary like a family member. But I guess sexy does have its cons.
Friend two was soooo random as well. Another person that watch me grow up. Situation was similar. He went away seen me in a club and couldn't believe his eyes. He got my # from a cousin and would call everyday. But I thought nothing of it because he too was a family friend. Even more than the friend "Gary". But one night over drinks he just kept telling me how sexy I was, how my body is ridiculous and that I could get it. I had to tell him I didn't want it and that I have a boyfriend who I love very much. Dude even asked me to go on a trip with him. And while saying all this wanted to make sure that I didn't tell my cousin about this. Well because I wasn't paying....umm we'll call him Jerry. Well because I wasn't paying jerry no mind there's nothing to tell my cousin. Now once again just like I predicted the vibe. From the previous situation I'm sure things will be uncomfortable when ever he's around. He stop calling when he realized that it wasn't going down like that. Now I feel like I'm gotta come at him like a random dude. He'll be lucky if we are even hi and bye. What's funny is he was sooo overly confident. Ha. Love shooting down those types.
Its sad because I would love to have a heterosexual MALE friend who isn't distracted by my female anatomy. Like if you are a family friend don't try to cross that line. Age might not be nuttin but a number but kissing cousin is striaght gross (even if it is pay cousins)!!!
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When The Black Man IS Doing The Right Thing...

Okay ladies I should warn you now, this post might be a little long in length. However, it is sooo worth checking out. When Obama was fisrt elected I was one of the main ones screaming how us black people should really be inspired to reach for the sky. Especially the black man!!
I felt like if Obama could accomplish something so out of the norm like becoming president than yes we should try to become the doctors, the lawyers, and business owners we always dreamed of becoming!!! My point was let's no longer make excuses for failure. Or using the race card as an excuse. ("its hard out here for a black man"! R.I.P).
Okay so now I am aware of a sitution of a good black man being wrongfully accused, I ask what do we do when there's a hard working black man (#35) who is wrongfully accused??? It makes me sooo sick to my stomach to see that no matter how far we've come there is still those group of people who cannot stand to see certain individuals come up in life. When there down and out they're quick to give that "you need to get it together" speech. But when they get it together they do everything in their will power to knock them back down.
So maybe it is hard out here for a black man. I mean could you imagine working so hard to build this foundation, just to see someone take it all away. I find it disappointing that with a scribble of a pen they can just pick you up and wrongfully arrest you. Despite the fact that you've been working so hard.
I know a lot of people instinct reaction is to give up and just be done with trying to do the right thing. Wrong!!! You have to walk with your head up and continue doing what your doing. Imagine how many doors was slammed in Obama's face before he got into the White House. I'm sure it wasn't easy.
To my black men keep your head up. Don't get discourage. Because we all know that God has the final word~ just a thought
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Baby Mama Drama

OMG!!! Let me explain this long dramatic delay. I'm always on the go and never have around to use my PC. However I just set my blog up so that I can properly blog from my phone :-).
Okay ladies I call this entry baby mama drama. Lately I have been visiting my Nana (awww) and on that particular street its like babies galore. Every where you turn around there's a baby! And even though their babies are all different one thing they have in common is drama with the mommas.
Okay I'll start with my with the first case. I call this case "babies having babies" We'll call her LaQitanaynay because I swear the girl personality fits the name. She's like 15 and I swear I think the neighbors sees the baby way more than she does. All she do is go to parties, fight and run off with her "wanna be" drug dealer boyfriend smh....
Then there's baby mother number two. We'll call her Jackie. Lives with her TWO kids and the father. She personally has to seek baby sitters so he can run the streets instead of him keeping them since he don't work. And ladies she had the second baby and still don't have a ring...YUCK

Now last but certainly not least we have the "hood" baby mother. Likes to be in with the homies. Threatens her baby father's other baby mothers (a mess) and the sad thing its an act. She likes to yell and make scenes so that she has a reputation of being known "not to play that." When in reality she was raised in a home (not apartment) by both married parents... And did I add she met him in court....

LADIES MY POINT IS BABY MAMA DRAMA IS NOT CUTE PERIOD. THE TERM IS DISRESPECTFUL. LET'S NOT SETTLE FOR JUST HAVING BABIES LET'S BECOME WIVES!!!!
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Just Serve Me Some MAC On A Silver Platter!

I am such a MAC addict....well actually a makeup addict in general...sometimes I even think my love for it is a lil unhealthy lol...I'm so not the lady that thinks being made up is clear lipgloss and a white line on my eye lids (a look thats classic in Birdville). Nope not me!!! I gets it in (as these urban folks would say) foundation, masscara, colored lip gloss etc...

I just wanted to take the time to give my respect to makeup since it seems to be disrespected in "urban" communities...Its sad but I am the poster child of knowing how much of an individual I was... and even though in my book being an individual is a cool thing in birdville if they don't understand it it they can't stand it.... Girls especially the ones who look so rough around the edges you know (pinch braids, tight jeans, SNEAKERS(ugh) and achne walking down Whalley AVE with a cigarette and a D-block coat, another classic look) would always scream that they don't need make up! *coughs* Sure you don't!

But what happen to being girly and loving makeup, smelling pretty, and just being a woman... Like I'm not saying that wearing makeup is the only way to do that but a lady should branch out..... Alot may not agree. I love my makeup it makes me feel like I'm in my element....I go to the MAC counter and really know my product.... I'm no label whore and just wear MAC to say I wear MAC... I know about texture and looks that only MAC seems to ACE!!!!! I actually purchase some yesturday....

What really makes me cringe is that alot of my mocha complexted sistahs think because of their shade that they cannot do color....uh honey because of your shade you should do color....Your skin is beautiful and color does nothing but enhance that....it really pops!!! Get that brown paper bags system out your head!


I'm skeptical about my new lipstick shade simply because it feels like its missing something but of course I'll work it out.... so to all my plain Janes out there spice it up.... it is soooooo 2009!!!! I mean if men can apply makeup on national tv (RuPaul's Drag Race) so can you!!!! Til next time I'M SUCH A F-ING LADY!!!

THE BOY IS MINE ( OR I'LL KICK YOUR.....)

Ladies this is a very touchy subject. Even though I must admitt me being the pre-teen that I was, was sooooooooo in love with this song when it came out. But we all know how ugly a situation like this really gets in the real world....

It def don't go down with two women SINGING there point of views. More like arquing and maybe even getting physical. Which is why I wanna ask my ladies why do woman get to territorial? Like why do we literally allow a man to have so much power....

There is nothing uglier than two grown women fighting over a guy....because if he really gave a damn one of the "parties" wouldn't exist for you to fight with... Just lil thought. So if the slogan "The Boy Is Mine" ever comes out your mouth, I hope and pray its because you were simply singing the song.....well that words from such a f-ing lady!!!

HOT ITEM OF THE WEEK

Now Y'all know I need my butt whooped lol! I am soooooo sorry. I have been slacking like what....I cannot believe I have kept you guys waiting sooooo long....And whats even more sad is that I don't have a real excuse....I was just slackin with my mackin (boooo). Well anyway let me give you guys the second addition of what I like to call "HOT ITEM OF THE WEEK." Ladies I thought long and hard about this one. Since my first "HOT ITEM OF THE WEEK" was a bit pricey (shout out to the lace wigs). Well even though I'm sooo tired of hearing the work "recession" its no denying that we are in one. With the economy being in the shambles that its in, we should really not take for granted the smaller things in life.....

With that said my "HOT ITEM OF THE WEEK" is NAIR!!!! I mean it really is the epitome of proof that small things can make a BIG difference. Imagine wearing that $200.00 dollar dress with hairy legs, or that sexy top from BEBE with hairy pits (yucky) it just wouldnt be the same... And whats sooooo good about NAIR is that you can soooo purchase this at Walgreen's (love that store)! The beauty of this baby besides the fact it had the ability to work your bikini line, arm pits, and legs it that it cost no more that six-seven bucks.

I will keep it real that I wasn't a fan of the way it smell but the rasberry kind smells great....and having sexy tone HAIR LESS legs makes it an amazing product!!!

SOME JUST CAN'T BE TAMED (I want a soldier)

WHY DO GOOD GIRLS, LIKE BAD BOYS???? That is the million dollar question... That no one seems to know the answer to.... I mean girls just love a man who has a lil inner "thugg" in them. (Yuck I actually perfer to say men who are a lil ruff around the edges) I think as females we want to believe that, the man that we are with can protect us!!! Now fellas don't go around being a wanna be. I'm one of the females who are blessed with an antenna for spotting phonies I'm also blessed to be dealing with the best of both worlds (shout to you #35)... There is nothing worst then a man who is trying to be something that he's not.. For that I don't even consider him a man (harsh)!

Anyway to get back on track, I used Jim Jones picture just because he looks like a street dude who I can so picture roaming Harlem til the day he dies. Like no matter how much "fame" he gets, there is something real local about him lol. Like the type to make four to six women fall in love, the type that thinks he is tooo cool to settle down....

Alot of woman actually find their selves being attracted to a man that they just can't get... Like maybe the whole challenge thing really turns them on(homegirl eventually you will get tired of chasing) What is it in these men that women just find so irresistable??? How many heart aches does it take for one to realize maybe he just can't be tamed....Then again even if you did tame him at the end WAS IT REALLY WORTH IT????

Ladies please know your worth... I know way too many females who think its cute comparing notes to prove who matters the most, or driving around town lookin for the animal, ladies I'm sorry to be the one to break it down to you but some guys really just needs to roam....and like DMX said he'll find his way home....

SONG LYRIC OF THE DAY

If I'd a listen to my best friends,who said that you wasn't my type, then I would probably be just like them, still searhin, looking for MR.RIGHT- Fantasia
Album:Fantasia Song: Bump What Your Friends Say



Okay told ya there would be days that I would slipp! I didn't think it would be the very next day (oops). So for the record it might not be every day but every other day there will be a lyric of the day.... And because hit singles are pretty boring simply because they are played almost every five minutes on your local radio station I'm going to try to avoid songs that were hit singles unless I just have to elaborate on a certain lyric..

For the most part they will be songs that you had to either purchase the album to know about or be a real "fan" of the artist. Because the whole point is to put you ladies on songs that you may have never known about....

The reason why I chose Fantasia song "Bump What Your Friends Say" is because when it comes to love as corny as this may sound only you really know whats best for you at the very end.... Not your mom, dad, sister, brother, best friend nobody...Because only you will feel the results of the outcome.. Yeah it may hurt your love ones to see you hurt but nobody is going to feel that level of hurt like you.....NOBODY. Which is why I choose the lyric thats goes "If I'd a listen to my best friends,who said that you wasn't my type, then I would probably be just like them, still searhin, looking for MR.RIGHT" Sometimes friends are the worst people to go to. Not because they are hating, or jealous or any other adjective that means envy, but because simply they are outside looking within. Sometimes we have the BAD habit of editing the stories.

Not to mention that they minds might be to cloudy due to them trying to find a Mr.Right of their own. I'm not saying don't go to your girls for advice at all, but keep it mind lawyers are not the only people who are bias....and you don't wanna punch yourself for missing out on your MR.RIGHT!!!! Ladies download this song and please let me know what you think

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BESTIES (ITS SOOO HARD TO SAY GOODBYE)

Okay ladies because I'm such-a-f-ing-lady I have the habit of speaking my mind. Never rude. But will quickly address a situation if its bothering me. And like I stated earlier this is a blog (MY BLOG) where you can let it all out....

Well I feel the need to address friendships. How just like romantic relationships they come and go. Like its just natural for people to sometime grow apart (I guess)But its crazy because when the going is good, its GOOD, and when its bad, its BAD! But what is it that make us grow apart....and why do the signs show up when its too late to fix....

Personally I do not let too many in my circle....but if I do IN MY OPINION I'm so loyal...almost motherly and protective of my friend's feeling (such a f-ing Cancer)! Not to long ago a "best friendship" that I had for years turn sour...Like honestly back then I could never picture a day we wouldn't talk on the phone everday for hours..or get up....or just kick it like old times....

We were the black Paris and Nicole...Like had soooo much in common, we were girly (still is), classy and was each other two percent. (two percent- a lil inside joke when 98% of the people in our area said white, we were the two percent that felt red lol) We just had a vibe... We had our own inside language, and inside jokes for days... like I was the Paris to her Nicole and vice versa(mad tight)

But over the years or maybe I should say months we just grew apart. I say months because it was soooooo random. Something minor growing into something major.... But even though we keep in touch with technology its clearly not the same...but there is no bad blood (look at me and my hood self lol @bad blood) I actually still love my old bestie <----- aww still kinda weird.... but I know that this is a sign that we have grown....We still have tons of memories to last and of course can always unite over drinks....wow got kinda deep right quick a true sign that I'm SUCH-A-F-ING-LADY

EYE CANDY!!!!!

UM..UM...UMMM!!!! MR JAMARCUS RUSSELL!!! HE IS SOOOOOOOOO SEXXI!! NUMBER 2 ON THE OAKLAND RADIERS.....NOT INTO FOOTBALL BUT HE CAN EASILY GET ME TO TURN TO ESPN.... HE'S DEF #2 ON MY LIST (MY NUMBER ONE FOOTBALL PLAYER IS A SPECIAL HARTFORD NATIVE *WINK*)LADIES ENJOY THIS CREATION LAWD HAVE MERCY LOL

SONG LYRIC OF THE DAY

"Whoever said it's impossible to miss when you never had
Never almost had you"- Tamia. Album:Between Friends Song: Almost


Okay Ladies anyone who knows me know that I'm like real creative!!! Especially in song writing. So I decided to make it my business on a daily basis (might be days I slipp)to find a song, and a lyric in the song that just hits home....we all know that songs are the soundtracks of our lives. For the first entry I choose Miss Tamia's song Almost.... The song is soooooo beautiful as well as old but hey its in my current playlist and you should add it to yours... Seriously ladies how many times have you (we) thought we had a guy and when looking back on the situation you realize you never really had him after all. I mean if you did he probably wouldn't have done half the things he did. Yet you still miss him!!!

Well theres a cliche that says YOU CAN'T MISS WHAT YOU NEVER HAD. This is where this song takes place.. What's interesting about this song is that its actually going agaisnt that very cliche. Saying that its very possible to miss what you never had (that is if the person is "special" enough") And for that reason I choose the part of the song where she sings "whoever said its impossible to miss when you never had, never almost had you" That is the truth. Sometimes you can be soooooo close to getting your way that you can taste it. And even though you never quite got it you stil miss it. LADIES PLEASE DOWNLOAD THIS AMAZING SONG.....TELL ME WHAT YOU THINK....It's sooooo one of those songs that just makes a woman feel like its okay to dwell on the past...

HOT ITEM OF THE WEEK!!!!

Just because we are NOT celebrities doesn't mean things don't get busy or hetic like one...Which is why my hot item of the week is the one and only LACE WIG!!! Many celebrities are wearing them from Beyonce, Ashanti, Mary J Blige or anybody else who seems to change their styles often.

Okay so I've been doing my homework on them and they are amazing. You can actually part and style your hair anyway you want... Yess ladies high ponytails, parts down the middle the styles are endless. You can wear up do's down do's any way you wanna wear your hair. They are a little pricey but if your patient enough you can actually find them pretty cheap... I believe with a product like this you get what you pay for... (invisiwig.com has me sold, the minute I get them income tax lol)

Not only are they stylish but convient for those bad hair days or if you simply don't have the time.... And believe me paying $300 dollars for this baby is soooo worth it... Whenever you don't have time to do your hair just throw on your lace wig... You can actually do it yourself... So yes ladies you should add a lace wig to the closet!!!

You Don't Know My Name

Okays So I have a juicy story to tell. Of course I'm going to edit names because I guess its the right thing to do......We all heard the song by Miss Alicia Keys "You Don't Know My Name" and even though this story is not quite as innocent I felt it was soooooo appropriate!!

Ladies I'm not knocking one night stands or monthly stands (lol if that even exist)but at least take the time in between humps and get dude name!!! Here's the story...

We'll call him Jacob and we'll call her Meagan... Okay... So Here it goes... I met this guy name *Jacob while being cute and fab and simply walking down the street on my way to visit an Aunt... Anyway Jacob just had the nerve to approach me. And I guess due to being bored I gave him my number. Because I honestly wasnt interested... To make a long story short just couldn't help but to put him in the friend category yet he still would try... well because I'm so not a hater I decided to hook him up with my "home girl" Meagan. Maybe for selfish reasons because I wanted to get him out my hair and plus the accent that made me cringe she liked. So around April I hooked them up (mean while I still was his first choice). We'll they must of hit it off or he just wanted to HIT because in July she was PREGNANT!!!! Now here's the crazy part she named the baby after the dad..... He goes to jail and she's trying to get his info through the inmate locater site (ghetto) any who she could not find him... Come to find out his real name was *Leroy!!!!! Like OMG she personally named her baby Jacob, thinking she was naming the baby after the father when in reality his name was no where near that...
So ladies if your gonna do your thing, please get the dude's name..... I would hate for you to be a victim!!!

WELCOME

OKAY WELCOME TO MY BLOG!!!! I'M SO EXCITED!!! (OKAY I'M BEING PRETTY GAY RIGHT NOW) ANYWAYS BECAUSE THIS IS THE FIRST ENTRY I'M GOING TO MAKE IT MY BUSINESS TO WRITE ONLY IN CAPS (MORE GAY). ANY WHO JUST TO MAKE SURE THAT I INTRODUCE MYSELF YOU CAN CALL ME BLACK BARBIE. SHALLOW BUT HEY THATS A CHARACTERISTIC I'VE BEEN TOLD PLAYS A IMPORTANT ROLE IN MY PERSONALITY!!! WELL IF YOU DON'T KNOW ME FROM ADAM WHICH ALOT OF YOU MAY NOT....I'M A PRETTY INTERESTING INDIVIDUAL.....INSTEAD OF GIVING MY LIFE STORY AND VIEWS ON THINGS IN ONE SITTING, YOU'LL SO LEARN THAT BY SIMPLY STAYING TUNED...YOU'LL SEE THAT WE PROBABLY HAVE MORE IN COMMON THEN YOU IMAGINED.....

SUCH-A-F-ING-LADY!!! INTERESTING TITLE *GIGGLES* I KNOW. BUT I THOUGHT GOOD AND HARD ABOUT WHAT I WANTED MY BLOG TO REPRESENT AND THIS COULDN'T HAVE BEEN A BETTER NAME. IN THE OLD DAYS WOMEN WERE PORTRAYED AS BEING WEAK, SWEET, CONSERVATIVE, SOFT SPOKEN, AND TIMID.....NOT!! WE ARE STRONG INDIVIDUALS WITH ENOUGH BACK BONE (WELL AT LEAST I DO) AND WE ARE NOT TAKIN NO NIG NIGS SHHHHHHHH. WELL NOT ALL OF IT AT LEAST..... LADIES THIS IS A BLOG TO REPRESENT US. THE BEHIND THE SCENES OF BEING A REAL WOMAN IN TODAY'S SOCIETY....AND IF YOU FEEL LIKE YOU GOTTA GET YOUR KIMORA LEE ON (MEANING BEING IN CHARGE OF YOUR SHHHH) DON'T FEEL BAD JUST LOOK IN THE MIRROR WINK AND SAY LOUD AND PROUD "I'M SUCH A F-ING LADY"